The Soft Art of Asking: How to Make a Polite Request in Korean (한국에서 '예쁘게' 부탁하는 법: 요구처럼 들리지 않게)
(Why “juseyo” isn’t always enough)You’re on the subway. You point and ask someone, "Ijjogeuro gayo?" ("This way, go?") The person stares back, momentarily confused by the abrupt, incomplete phrasing.At a convenience store, you point to an item and command, "Igeo juseyo" ("This, give."). The clerk freezes, a brief, awkward silence hanging in the air as they register the direct demand.In Korean, a..
2025. 11. 15.
A Simple Rule for "Yes" and "No" in Korea (간단한 규칙: 한국에서 '네'와 '아니오'를 구별하는 법)
(Why “yes” might mean “no” in Korean)You ask: “This isn’t spicy, right?” They say: Ne (네).A common misunderstanding occurs here: The foreigner, thinking of English, hears 'Yes,' assumes the answer is “Yes, it is spicy,” and avoids eating it. However, the Korean person actually meant, “I agree, it is not spicy.”Wait—why did "Yes" mean the opposite of what I thought?In Korean, ne (네) doesn’t alway..
2025. 10. 10.